I went to a large high school in Northern Virginia, where most of the classes had over 30 kids. It was a good school, but I was a lazy student. I spent most of my class time sitting in the back row reading novels or daydreaming. My grades were mediocre and I’m certain I was the source of much consternation to my teachers, largely because I put little effort into my education. Algebra is a perfect example. I hated math in general. It frustrated me to no end because it didn’t come easy. Strangely enough, after a poor grade the first semester, things turned around. I did pretty well in Algebra, Geometry, and Algebra 2. I didn’t suddenly become a math whiz. Rather, my math teacher, Mrs. Eisinger, sat with me after school for 2 hours a day, three times a week for 3 years helping me learn math. She was patient, friendly, encouraging, and worked extra hours off the clock to make sure students who needed a hand in math, received it. I even reached the point where I enjoyed doing the work because she helped me make sense of the whole thing.
I’ve been out of high school for more than 20 years, and I still remember the name of the best teacher I ever had. It’s impressive how much of an impact a good teacher can make in the life of a student. I am grateful to live in Big Sandy. My daughter went to Kindergarten here last year and loved it. Her teacher was fantastic and did an amazing job with her. I really appreciate it, because my wonderful daughter can also be rambunctious, stubborn, and dramatic. I’m certain she required extra effort and attention, which can be a challenge to deal with at times. Her teacher did so well, that my daughter lamented not getting to spend as much time with her this year. I don’t think this is an incidental emotion. Big Sandy has a good school with good teachers. It’s important that we support and thank them often. There are a couple of reasons why it’s so important. First, teaching can be thankless and personally draining. Saying “thank you” and offering encouragement are a good way to combat those tendencies. A person who feels appreciated will do a better job and put more energy into it. They’ll also be happier and more satisfied. Second, kids learn a great deal from watching the adults in their lives. If we show appreciation, they have the opportunity to learn the importance of thanking teachers. I had quite a few great teachers growing up. I wish I had taken the time to tell them how much their work meant to me. Unfortunately, hindsight is 20/20.
Today, we can encourage our kids to express gratitude when they feel it by modeling this behavior and explaining to our kids the importance of doing so. As parents and community members, fostering an environment of appreciation around our schools and teachers is a great way to communicate the value of education. I thank the guy who fixes my plumbing. I thank the guy who fixes my car. I do these because having working pipes and cars are a huge deal to me. How should I respond to the person who teaches my daughter to read? “Thank you” is the least I can do. Especially considering the long term impact that is made by a good and caring teacher
