"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" Proverbs 15:1
What is my response to abrasive people? It's a constant struggle. I can usually keep my mouth shut, but not always! If harsh words stir me up to be harsh back, I'm no better than the person who offended me. It's a battle of self-control and understanding.
Walking in the cool September weather after the nice rain, I found myself taking pictures of odd things, like always. But the picture of the thistle growing by a white fall ground flower instantly made me remember my abrasive words. I will print and place the picture prominently to remind me of the Lord's voice! The Bible reminds me often of what kind of person I am to be. Ok, most of the time, the abrasive words are only thought! However, thoughts make me who I am. So what if I don't say them, I am who I think.
Our society now believes we can say anything we want-freedom of speech and all-but words and attitudes affect our lives.
I want to be a flower child, like in the picture. I want to be strong, resilient, and powerful. I want to live among the thorns and make a difference. I want the spirit of Jesus to rule my life. I want to be an instrument of peace, difficult to do when we run amok, and often proud of it! But I believe change is possible. I want to respond with love and wisdom. So, I ask God to help me be that person. When my harsh words, even in response to others, keep me from becoming who I need to be, it's time to reflect.
"A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, But the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness", Proverbs 15:1-5
I don't want to be part of the problem
